the grove five:
five lenses we look through before standing behind a curated introduction
Compatibility asks whether two people fit. We ask something first: how does each person show up when relationship gets real?
The Grove Five is our review after the six-week Journey. It's where we decide whether to move toward the Grove, where curated introductions happen.
· Know Yourself · Stay Grounded · Own Your Part · Relate Well · Build Trust
· Know Yourself · Stay Grounded · Own Your Part · Relate Well · Build Trust
the five
01 / Know Yourself What matters to you — and how do your patterns shape the way you connect?
02 / Stay Grounded How do you respond when emotions run high?
03 / Own Your Part How do you take responsibility for your choices and their impact?
04 / Relate Well How do you communicate, navigate disagreement, and repair?
05 / Build Trust How do you handle honesty, boundaries, and another person's autonomy when it asks something of you?
These aren't questions to answer well.
They're questions to answer honestly.
how it works
After the six-week Journey, we review what we've learned through our work together using the Grove Five and decide whether the next step is curated introductions.
Completing the Journey does not guarantee an introduction. Sometimes the next step is further practice and reflection.
We take care with the introductions we choose to make. No process can guarantee how a person will behave.
